6 Things Women Wish Men Knew About Sex

If sex doesn't give you pleasure it takes out all the fun from it. And it's hard to explain it to your partner why you look so disinterested. All guys out there, there are certain things which if you followed can reignite the passion in your ladylove. You need to understand the fact that their experience of sex is different from what you want. Don't worry you don't need to go to a sexologist to have it solved. Some matters you need to take up in your own hands. Read below to find certain solutions to rekindle your woman's libido.

1. Orgasm lasts longer - Sex is not finished when a man is done. Studies show that it takes 15 to 40 minutes for the average woman to reach orgasm. Just because you've crossed the finish line doesn't mean your partner has too. It's not a competition, right?

2. You want us to look good? Same goes for you

Take care of how you look. A fantasy goes both way. Personal hygiene is very important. If your hygiene is down, your sex appeal goes down the drain. And who doesn't like it when their man puts some extra effort to please their partner.

3. Don't just remain silent, speak something

Don't remain silent all the time. It is not helpful for concentration. No one's asking you to recite a speech out loud, just that communication always helps. Speak to her - tell her how you feel and express your love.

4. You must cuddle

Don't just expect to have a physical relationship only for pleasure. Cuddles make her feel wanted and show that you're not there just for the sex. It helps you bond together and releases your stress. Its essential to spend this time in each others arms and strengthen your love life.

5. More foreplay

Foreplay plays a really important role and helps a lot. It's particularly important for women to have successful foreplay as usually woman take a longer time than men to feel aroused enough to have an orgasm. It gives time to let things heat up. And the beginning is as important as the end. So spend time on this! Do not rush.

6. Don't expect porn here

Porn has set unrealistic standards for all men out there. Don't expect women to have an instant orgasm the moment you start the sex. And porn is pretty sexist, not all women find it likeable or acceptable.

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