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Will I get infected if I have sex with my HIV positive partner?

Answered by: Dr LM Nath | Consultant, Community Medicine,
New Delhi

Q: I am writing to you in a state of real confusion. Recently my wife tested positive for HIV where as I tested negative, is it really possible not to get infected even while having regular and unprotected sex (both vaginal and oral). One more thing, a year ago I was addicted to phensedyl cough syrup and used to take about 250 ml a day; does it have any relation or effect on the HIV detection test? Please solve my problem I am in real trouble, also please advise how to quit my addiction forever. I have also developed few sores (wounds) on my penis inner skin and there are few dots on the head of the penis as well which gives me a burning sensation sometimes. Please note that I have had sex recently with my wife with the wound on my penis, your advice will be highly appreciated and welcomed.

A:Yes it is possible that you were not infected even though you had sex with her without protection. I would suggest the following:

Use a condom properly from now on.

Get another test for your wife if the ELISA was not repeated to confirm the infection.

Get your test also repeated if your wife's status is confirmed.

Your test should be 3 months after your last unprotected intercourse with your wife.

See a specialist about the ulcer on your penis and get it treated regardless of the diagnosis.

Stop taking phensedyl or other drugs and attend a de-addiction clinic immediately.

Please also remember that your wife will need your support at this trying time.