Q: I am a 24 years old girl, having a boyfriend of the same age. I wanted to clarify something related to our physical relationship. My boyfriend always likes to imagine me as his boyfriend and he likes to be my girlfriend i.e. he wants me to be like a boy and have a manly body and likes me to caress his breasts. I feel this is weird. Is this normal behaviour?

A:Most people have sexual fantasies of some kind or the other. It is difficult to judge on the basis of one fantasy whether it qualifies as being deviant. However, one way in which this may be judged as to see if this fantasy is a pre-requisite for your boyfriend to have a satisfying sexual experience. If yes, then one would surely suggest that you both meet a mental health professional to talk about your concerns.