Q: I am 28 years old. I am in love with a girl for the past 12 years. We are getting married next year. I had sex with 2 call girls when I was in college. I feel very depressed when I think about the dishonesty. Should I tell my future wife about everything? I am very confused. Please advise.

A:I appreciate your sensitivity towards the issue. As you say that you are uncomfortable with the fact that you have been dishonest, it would be best to talk to your partner about this. Given the fact that you have been with her for a fairly long time. I imagine that there must be a level of trust and faith existing between the two of you. Make use of that base and an honest communication will add to the trust. Do reassure her about your commitment to the relationship and agree on some rules that you will stick by for the future.