Q: I am an 18-year-old male. I think I am a bisexual. I am in love with a girl, yet I watch gay porn. Basically, I don't like gay porn, but something always drags me to it, while I surf the Internet. How do I overcome this situation?

A:Your letter does not have enough information for me to advise you about your sexuality. However, the fact that you like watching gay porn does not, by itself, mean that you are bisexual or gay. You might want to write again with more information about your sexual experiences, i.e. what excites you, what doesn't, and so on. Or, better yet, a consultation with a sex therapist might give you the answer to your questions.