I have lost my sexual urge, what should I do?
Q: I am 25 years old, married for the last 3 years. I have a 2 years old child. I have not been interested in sex since my delivery. I do not respond well to my husbands needs. I have no mental pressures neither does my husband force himself on me. He is very understanding. I don't miss sex even if I don't have it for a month. I like to be cozy with my husband and I like kissing him and hugging him, but sexually I have no urge at all. We have tried watching movies, reading, long foreplays, new techniques etc. But there is no effect. I don't like my attitude but have not been able to change it. Can low generation of hormones by the body result in low sexual needs?
A:Its really difficult to say why this has happened, however one of the possible reasons could be that you get very tired with the child or the inhibition of having the child close to you gives you a mental block regarding sex. If these two do not appear to be the reasons then you may have to consult a psychoanalyst.