Q: I am a 37 years old female married to a man of similar age. We have a great sex life but at times, I face problems in achieving orgasm. I feel that due to this my husband gets disappointed and feels low of his sexual capacities. What should we do?

A:Every couple develops a mechanism to reach climax. If the current system is working so well for you, I see no problem in that. If your husband has problem in sustaining his erection for long enough time, he needs to see some andrologist/ urologist to fix this problem.