Q: My wife, 30 years old, does not enjoy sex. I indulge in 20 minutes of foreplay, which she does enjoy but when we have sex she cannot enjoy. She never gets to know if she’s had an orgasm or not. What is the problem?

A:You should frankly discuss your perception about your wife’s enjoyment during sex. Find out what she likes and what she doesn't. Accordingly, please proceed during sex. If you become sensitive to her needs she will surely like it and enjoy it as well.