Q: I am a 55 years old man married about 32 years ago, now having grand children. My problem is that I have a strong addiction for sex and porno viewing. My craze for sex is on the increase with the increase of age. I have got a faithful wife, but of a very cold nature and not very responsive to my sex desires. But in my case, if I correctly recollect, I had started taking keen interest in sex when I was just 11 or 12 old and the sex craze like that of a beginner still continues unabated. Even at this stage of life, I have to masturbate very frequently to satisfy my sex desires despite active sex with my wife which always gives me guilty feeling. Whenever I look at a female, I always try to see her from the sex angle. Though I have all the good qualities of a good human being except this bad habit which I badly want to overcome. Kindly advise before it is too late for a person of my age.
A:Lot of men in their 50s still have a strong sexual drive whereas women after their menopause usually lose interest in sex. You will have to be patient with your wife. You need not be guilty for your interest in sex. I would suggest that you could communicate your desires to your wife and I am sure that she will understand. Couples even after 30 years of marriage can enjoy a successful sex life.