Q: I am 46 and my wife 35. I am active in sex and need and enjoy love-making any time even more than once a day. We are married for more than twelve years with no child. She could not conceive as her fallopian tubes are blocked and there are cysts in her ovaries. She suffered TB and is now completely normal. The doctors say mumps or the TB may be reason for her defective fallopian tubes. We are in consultation with specialists and in the process of taking treatment for having kids. Right from the beginning she has not shown interest in sex. She never says she enjoyed love-making. I spend about 15 to 20 minutes in love making including oral sex. She is either asleep or angry in the entire act. Is she frigid? The semen released in her body just comes out: Is it the reason for not conceiving? How to make her enjoy love-making?

A:If you say that your wife has been a passive partner in sex for the last 12 years of marriage, there is definitely something seriously wrong with your marital life. We suggest that you consult a sex and marriage counselor with your wife. You require a detailed analysis of the problem for finding out an effective solution. As such, I will not call her frigid. At the same time, please keep getting investigated for the problem of infertility. Yes, TB is an important cause of infertility in females.