Q: I am a 30 years old male, got married 2 years back. I have quite a satisfactory sexual life with my wife and have intercourse almost everyday. My wife gets orgasm quite late. However, my girlfriend gets orgasm at least five times at an interval of 40-45 minutes. Does the pattern of getting orgasm differ for every woman? My wife, who is in her fifth month of pregnancy, used to get proper orgasm at least 2-3 times every day earlier. I guess she is purposefully faking orgasm now to avoid pain. Is it so?

A:Yes, every woman has a different threshold of achieving orgasm during sex. Reaching orgasm is not a mechanical act and every sexual act doesn't result in orgasm for a woman. Emotional bonding and inter-personal relations between the partners matter a lot in this process. Many a time, some women do fake orgasms - more to please the male partner. Look into your relations with your wife and you are likely to find answers to your questions.