Q: I am 31 years old man, got married in 1995 and had a son in 1999. After that we started using condoms to avoid pregnancy. Now as we want another child but when I have intercourse without a condom, I have burning sensation in my penis and I feel lot of difficulties while having intercourse (without condom but with condom I do not have any problem). My wife also has the same problem. It is true that since long time we did not have intercourse without condom. Is this is the reason for the burning sensation? Kindly advise me what I should do for the same.

A:Your problem is fairly simple. You will have to get used to performing without a condom. Use lot of lubricant and xylocaine ointment may help you blunt your sensation. Use it initially till you get over your problem. Key point is do not use condom and keep doing it without bothering much about the discomfort you and your wife have. I quote a great sage - solution of a problem is through it and not bypassing it.