Should I ask my husband why he doesn't have sex with me?

Q: I am 24 years old and married for three months. Till now we have not had sex with each other but just some traces of romance. He is very affectionate towards me. Apart from this I don't have any problem either with him or his family. Till now I have not talked about our sexual relationship with him. Do you think it’s too early for me to talk about it? Shall I just wait for a couple of more months? Please help.

A:I think three months is a long enough time for sexual relations to get established after marriage. It may be a good idea for you to take the lead and get it going. If your hubby has some problem, he will hesitate. That is the time to talk to him gently about sex. We hope he will open out & let you know. Please don't rush with it. Patience and gentleness are the keys to handle such a situation.