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How to help a child deal with the burden of studies?

Dr S Anandalakshmy
Advisor on Child Development & Education,
Chennai

Q: I had shifted from India to USA last year. My elder daughter who is studying in VIth standard, was in a Gujarati medium school. She was good in her studies in India. Here she has to study in an English medium school. She was not able to cope with the load of the new language. She has completed her Vth standard, last year. Please advise me how to teach her so that she can understand the subject properly with cramming and also take the interest in the subject. It is not possible for me to go back to India or send my family back.

A:It is not easy for a child in Standard V or VI to change from Gujarati toEnglish medium and to perform well straightaway. She needs some time to hearthe language spoken and to speak it. Allow her to watch childrens TVprogrammes like Sesame Street. Let her make friends and play with childrenof her own age. If you can, please find out if there is a Gujarati familyin your area, where your daughter can visit and pick up some idea of what isexpected of her in school. She will surely become more comfortable with thenew setting in another year.However, cramming will not help. The school will expect the children tounderstand what they are reading and writing. There are no short cuts. Butif she starts reading childrens books, even those written for children of 6and 7 years, she will pick up the language. The secret to confident use of aforeign language is to read a lot (for the sake of the story, at least)until the language becomes familiar. May be in the summer, she can havereading lessons for a couple of months, from a person who is patient, goodnatured and competent. Your daughters problem is temporary, and it is goodto handle it gently and without strict rules or threats.