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, 14 October 2008
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Since u are a working lady it is very important to note the mentality/behaviour of the person who is taking care of your child as much of the time your child spends with the care taker. Secondly spend much time with the child and treat the child with love and affection. Since you have said that you are in in-laws house and that people keep coming and going let not your child notice anybody quarelling/fighting/arguing. Avoid watching any TV channel which is full of violence, etc.when your child is present. Play for the child some soft songs, rhymes (audio/video).
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Sent by Divya (New Delhi) , 13 October 2008
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Hi,
I am a working mother, my 3 year old daughter shows a very arrogant behavior. She has become very insecure, over possessive and shows anger or irritability in almost everything. This behavior of hers is more extreme in my presence. She starts any activity like coloring studying, listening to rhymes etc very happily however after few minutes she becomes irritated by any samallest of thing which is not according to her. She spoil everything by scribbling shouting and yelling. I stay with my inlaws and the house gerally has people coming and going. I am worried for her and would like to know whats in her mind.
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Irritant Brother
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Sent by DSM , 27 January 2009
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As your brother is still immatured, he need to be told and the best way is your parents must counsel him. I am sure he will understad this and also u can take him into confidence and talk to him. Incase he still does not understand take to him to good counsellor
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Desparation to inspiration !
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Sent by Pratiti (Hyderabad) , 01 March 2009
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Dear Shaly,
You responded to my concern, almost 2 and a half years back. I am so very much thankful to you dear. It had really helped. And now I have another little angel to take care of, one year old baby girl.
Thanks for all the concern and support.
Love Pratiti
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, 07 February 2009
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Your daughter is 3 years old. At 3 she is hardly going to be devious and have something "in her mind". As you describe she is vulnerable because of several facts. My suggestion would be rather than labelling her behaviour ensure her safety. As a working mum, you will naturally have less time but quality time is more important. Spend good quality time with her and enjoy the time. Ignore bad behaviour and reward good behaviour. Be consistent in your dealings. She will respond, but slowly.
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Irritant Brother
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Sent by Arun (Mumbai) , 30 January 2009
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I think your brother is getting un necessary attention from your parents being little one and only son. Your parents should take care his upbringing seriously. His rude behaviour should be controlled to make him good person instead of a violant one. Roaming nude in home may be not a serious issue as your parents dont mind this and if he doesnt listen to you, it is better to ignore. His act of not only pulling your salwar down but slaping your hips is not accepatble.In future he could be more violant if not stopped by your parents now.
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Stubborn child
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Sent by Avan (Colombo) , 26 April 2009
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My son is 3 years & 10 months. He is very stubborn.We give him a lot of love and care but he never listens to his parents. If we say "NO" he wants to do it.If he gets angrty he hits us. I dont know what to do. Please help me.
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child development & emotions
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Sent by meenu s j (delhi) , 04 March 2009
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my niece behaves greedily everytime.she is 3yrs. old.she is provided all the things separately.she has a twin sibling(brother).but she is loved more.if both of them are provided with same eatables,she has to take some of them from his plate.it is becoming humiliating as this is being displayed in front of the visitors.she takes things from their plates.her brother too is following the same.please help.
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Irritant Brother
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Sent by Ritu (India) , 23 January 2009
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I am 18 years old girl. My parents are working. I am facing a rude and nuisance behaviour of my 12 years old brother.He is very rude & bad mannered. He does not respect me as an elder sister and often argues me even fights with me physically. I always try to be calm and behave well with him but he doesnt care.He has a bad habit that when he comes back from school, he takes off all his cloths in bed room (we share the same room)and walks naked to bathroom. After using toilet and washing he comes out nude and then dress up.I try to ask him many times to change cloths in bed room but he doesnt listen. I dont like this as he is growing and becoming hairy. When some times mom came earlier from office or at home, my brother do the same. Mom always say he will become good whith growing age.Recently he did the worst, during a fight he pulled down my salwar,pushing me on bed on my belly.I was not wearing panty on that time. He started slaping on my bare hips. This shocked me, even I was not able to pull my salwar back, I did not want to show him my front in struggle. I just lied and cried. Then he realized and appologized me.Can any body give me advise to mend his ways.
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irritating behevior
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Sent by deepa (nagpur) , 03 March 2009
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My daughter is 2Yrs and 10 mts old. She is loving, but gets irritated very fast. These tantrums are short lived. We are making an effort to create a loving environment in front of him. She cries for no reason and I am runnng out of patience. How do i calm him down and divert her energy to good use.
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